Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFCT) Therapists
Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFCT) is an evidence-based approach that helps partners strengthen their emotional bond and create more secure, lasting connections.

Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFCT) focuses on the attachment patterns that shape how partners relate to one another. By exploring the emotions underlying relationship conflicts, couples can better understand their needs and develop healthier ways of connecting. This approach may help partners move from cycles of disconnection toward deeper intimacy and trust.
First Session makes it easy to find a therapist who specializes in EFCT. Each therapist on our platform has an intro video so you can get a sense of their style before booking. Whether you're navigating communication challenges, rebuilding trust, or simply wanting to deepen your connection, couples therapy through an emotionally focused lens can support meaningful change. Credentials verified during onboarding.
Jim Squire

Jim Squire
Andrew Fawcett

Andrew Fawcett
Nikki Goldman-Stroh
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Nikki Goldman-Stroh
Monica Andrus

Monica Andrus
Anna Loch

Anna Loch
Rima Sehgal

Rima Sehgal
Corinna Killeen

Corinna Killeen
Alexandra Kljuseva

Alexandra Kljuseva
Amy O'Coin
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Amy O'Coin
Nicholas Balaisis

Nicholas Balaisis
Elena Maystruk

Elena Maystruk

Therapy is hard work.
Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFCT) is an evidence-based approach developed from attachment theory and emotion science. It helps couples identify negative interaction patterns and understand the deeper emotions driving those cycles. The goal is to create new, more secure ways of relating that foster lasting connection and intimacy.
EFCT may help couples experiencing recurring conflicts, emotional distance, or difficulty communicating effectively. It can support partners dealing with trust concerns, life transitions, or those who simply want to strengthen their relationship. This approach is designed for any couple seeking deeper emotional connection, regardless of relationship stage.
In EFCT sessions, your therapist guides both partners to explore the emotions beneath surface-level conflicts. You'll work together to identify negative patterns—like pursue-withdraw cycles—and understand how these protect you from vulnerability. Through this process, couples learn to express their needs more openly and respond to each other with greater empathy and attunement.
The duration of EFCT varies depending on each couple's unique situation and goals. Many couples find that meaningful progress can happen within several months of regular sessions. Your therapist will work with you to assess progress and adjust the approach as your relationship evolves.
Finding the right therapist is an important part of the process. On First Session, you can watch intro videos from each therapist to get a sense of their personality and approach before booking. Look for someone whose style resonates with both you and your partner, and who has experience working with couples on concerns similar to yours.
Booking is simple. Browse therapists who offer Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, watch their intro videos, and choose someone who feels like a good fit. You can book directly through their profile using online scheduling. Many therapists offer both in-person and virtual sessions to accommodate your preferences.
