Self Harm Therapists

If you're experiencing urges to hurt yourself, please know that support is available. Therapists on First Session can provide compassionate, non-judgmental care.

Self harm can be a way of coping with overwhelming emotions, but it often leaves you feeling worse in the long run. If you're struggling with urges to hurt yourself or are currently engaging in self harm, reaching out for professional support is an important step. You don't have to navigate this alone.

Therapists who work with self harm understand that these behaviors often serve a purpose—even if it's not a healthy one. They can help you understand what drives the urges, develop safer ways to cope with intense emotions, and work toward healing the underlying pain. On First Session, you can browse therapist profiles to find someone you feel safe reaching out to.

Khysandra Lee

Registered Psychotherapist
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Offers In-Person (Oakville, ON)
Virtual Sessions in ON.
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Khysandra Lee

Khysandra Lee

Registered Psychotherapist
$160/session
Anger, Anxiety, Boundaries and boundary setting, Break-up recovery, Childhood trauma, Confidence, Depression, Eating disorders, Emotional regulation, Fears and phobia, Health anxiety, Low Self-Esteem and Self Worth, Negative thinking and ruminating, Panic attacks, People pleasing, Perfectionism, Self harm, Social anxiety, Suicidal ideation, Trauma, Women's Health
Anger, Anxiety, Boundaries and boundary setting, Break-up recovery, Childhood trauma, Confidence, Depression, Eating disorders, Emotional regulation, Fears and phobia, Health anxiety, Low Self-Esteem and Self Worth, Negative thinking and ruminating, Panic attacks, People pleasing, Perfectionism, Self harm, Social anxiety, Suicidal ideation, Trauma, Women's Health

Kelly Budenz

Registered Social Worker
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Offers In-Person (Vaughan, ON)
Virtual Sessions in ON.
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Kelly Budenz

Kelly Budenz

Registered Social Worker
she/her
$175/session
Anxiety, Depression, Understanding & Regulating Emotions, Anger Management, Behavioural Issues, Boundaries and boundary setting, Building Self-Care Routines, Assertiveness, Children/Teens, Caregivers, Empowerment, Emotional regulation, Mindfulness, School challenges, Self harm, Suicidal ideation, Stress, General Mental Health, Parenting
Anxiety, Depression, Understanding & Regulating Emotions, Anger Management, Behavioural Issues, Boundaries and boundary setting, Building Self-Care Routines, Assertiveness, Children/Teens, Caregivers, Empowerment, Emotional regulation, Mindfulness, School challenges, Self harm, Suicidal ideation, Stress, General Mental Health, Parenting

Katie Harry

Registered Provisional Psychologist
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Offers In-Person (Calgary, AB)
Virtual Sessions in AB.
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Katie Harry

Katie Harry

Registered Provisional Psychologist
she/her
$180/session
Anxiety, Stress, Grief and Loss, Anxiety and Stress Management Skills, Attention and Impulsivity, Blocks in Connecting with Self and Others, Boundaries and boundary setting, Break-up recovery, Building Self-Care Routines, Burnout, Childhood trauma, Conflict resolution, Dating challenges, Depression, Emotional regulation, Life transitions, Parental divorce, PTSD, Self harm, Suicidal ideation, Workplace stress, Family Conflict, Identity and Self-Exploration
Anxiety, Stress, Grief and Loss, Anxiety and Stress Management Skills, Attention and Impulsivity, Blocks in Connecting with Self and Others, Boundaries and boundary setting, Break-up recovery, Building Self-Care Routines, Burnout, Childhood trauma, Conflict resolution, Dating challenges, Depression, Emotional regulation, Life transitions, Parental divorce, PTSD, Self harm, Suicidal ideation, Workplace stress, Family Conflict, Identity and Self-Exploration

Becky Hills

Registered Psychotherapist
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Offers In-Person (Cobalt, ON)
Virtual Sessions in AB, BC, MB, NT, NU, ON, SK, and YT.
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Becky Hills

Michael Kang

Registered Psychotherapist
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Offers In-Person (Toronto, ON)
Virtual Sessions in ON, NT, YT, NU, AB, BC, NL, and SK.
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Michael Kang

Michael Kang

Registered Psychotherapist
$195/session
ADHD, Anger Management, Addiction, Adjusting to a diagnosis, Anger, Anxiety and Stress Management Skills, Blocks in Connecting with Self and Others, Boundaries and boundary setting, Building Meaningful Connections, Building Self-Care Routines, Burnout, Career guidance, Caregiver burnout, Childhood trauma, Life transitions, Low mood, School challenges, Self harm, College or University Coaching, Relationship anxiety, Relationships, Racism, Abuse (Sexual/Physical/Verbal), BIPOC, Grief and Loss
ADHD, Anger Management, Addiction, Adjusting to a diagnosis, Anger, Anxiety and Stress Management Skills, Blocks in Connecting with Self and Others, Boundaries and boundary setting, Building Meaningful Connections, Building Self-Care Routines, Burnout, Career guidance, Caregiver burnout, Childhood trauma, Life transitions, Low mood, School challenges, Self harm, College or University Coaching, Relationship anxiety, Relationships, Racism, Abuse (Sexual/Physical/Verbal), BIPOC, Grief and Loss
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What is therapy for self harm?

Therapy for self harm provides support for individuals who hurt themselves as a way of coping with emotional pain. A therapist can help you understand the function self harm serves, develop alternative coping strategies, process the underlying emotions driving the behavior, and work toward recovery in a compassionate, non-judgmental environment.

Who might benefit from this type of support?

Anyone struggling with self harm—whether it's a recent development or a long-standing pattern—may benefit from therapy. You don't need to be in crisis to reach out. Getting support early can help you develop healthier coping skills before behaviors become more entrenched. If you're in immediate danger, please contact emergency services.

What's it like to talk about self harm in therapy?

Opening up about self harm can feel scary, but therapists who work in this area respond with compassion, not judgment. Sessions focus on understanding your experience, building safety, developing alternative coping strategies, and addressing the pain driving the behavior. You set the pace, and your therapist will support you through the process.

How long does therapy for self harm typically take?

The duration varies based on your individual situation and needs. Some people benefit from focused, shorter-term work on coping strategies, while others need longer-term therapy to address underlying trauma or emotional pain. Your therapist will work with you to create a plan that feels manageable and supportive.

How do I know if a therapist is right for me?

Finding someone you feel safe with is essential when discussing something so personal. On First Session, you can watch therapist intro videos to get a sense of their warmth and approach. Look for someone who seems genuinely caring, non-judgmental, and experienced in supporting people through difficult times.

How do I book a session?

Browse therapists on First Session who work with self harm. Watch their intro videos to find someone who feels right, then book directly through the platform. If you need immediate support while waiting for your appointment, crisis lines are available. In Canada, you can text HOME to 686868 for Crisis Text Line.