About the Nurtured Heart Approach
A strengths-based method designed to help children and families cultivate inner wealth, resilience, and positive self-concept through intentional relationship-building.
Ariella Boehm
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Ariella Boehm
Michal Goldstein

Michal Goldstein

Therapy is hard work.
The Nurtured Heart Approach is a strengths-based methodology that focuses on building "inner wealth" and positive self-concept. Originally developed to support children with intense behaviours, it helps individuals recognize their inherent value through intentional relationship-building and strategic responses to both positive and challenging moments.
While originally designed for children experiencing behavioural or emotional intensity, the Nurtured Heart Approach may support anyone seeking to build stronger self-worth and healthier relationships. It is often used with families, in educational settings, and with individuals of all ages who want to shift toward a more strengths-focused mindset.
Unlike approaches that focus primarily on reducing negative behaviours, the Nurtured Heart Approach emphasizes energizing positive moments and qualities. Practitioners intentionally withdraw energy from problematic behaviours while actively celebrating successes, helping individuals internalize a stronger sense of their own capabilities and worth.
Sessions typically involve learning specific techniques for recognizing and responding to positive behaviours, setting clear boundaries without giving excessive energy to rule-breaking, and practicing ways to build inner wealth through everyday interactions. Family sessions often include coaching for parents and caregivers to implement these strategies at home.
The timeline varies depending on individual circumstances and consistency in applying the approach. Some families notice shifts in dynamics within a few weeks of consistent practice, while deeper changes in self-concept and relationship patterns may develop over several months. Your therapist can help set realistic expectations based on your specific situation.
Our network of therapists trained in the Nurtured Heart Approach is growing across Canada. You can browse available practitioners on First Session, where each therapist has an intro video so you can get a sense of their style before booking. If you don't find a Nurtured Heart specialist in your area, consider exploring therapists who offer related child-focused or family therapy approaches.