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Understanding Separation Anxiety

Separation anxiety involves intense distress when apart from loved ones or familiar environments. While our network of specialists is growing, you can explore therapists who work with anxiety and attachment-related concerns.

Therapists

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    Raquel Ramos Nicolau

    Registered Therapeutic Counsellor

    • Offers in-person (North Vancouver, BC)
    • Virtual sessions in BC
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    Shannon Bradley

    Registered Psychotherapist

    • Offers in-person (Burk's Falls, ON)
    • Virtual sessions in ON
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    Anastasia Sutulova

    Therapist in Training

    • Offers in-person (Vancouver, BC)
    • Virtual sessions in MB, ON, YT, NU, NT, AB, BC, NL, SK
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    Hana Urushizawa

    Registered Therapeutic Counsellor

    • Virtual sessions in BC, ON, AB, QC, MB
  • Photo of Dr. Chasidy Karpiuk

    Dr. Chasidy Karpiuk

    Registered Clinical Counsellor

    • Waitlist
    • Offers in-person (North Vancouver, BC)
    • Virtual sessions in BC

Separation anxiety is characterized by excessive worry or distress when separated from people or places that provide a sense of security. While commonly associated with childhood, separation anxiety can affect people of all ages. Adults may experience it in relationships, after significant losses, or during major life transitions. The anxiety can feel overwhelming and may interfere with daily life, work, or relationships.

Therapy can help you understand the roots of separation anxiety and develop strategies to manage distressing feelings. Working with a therapist can provide tools for tolerating uncertainty, building secure attachments, and gradually increasing comfort with independence. On First Session, you can explore therapists who work with anxiety, attachment, and related concerns. Browse profiles and watch intro videos to find support that feels right for you.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is separation anxiety?

Separation anxiety involves excessive fear or distress about being separated from attachment figures or familiar environments. It can manifest as worry about harm befalling loved ones, reluctance to be alone, physical symptoms when facing separation, or avoidance of situations that require being apart. While common in childhood, it can persist or develop in adulthood.

What causes separation anxiety?

Separation anxiety can stem from various factors including early attachment experiences, significant losses or changes, traumatic separations, overprotective parenting, or major life transitions. Sometimes it develops after a period of stress or change. Understanding the underlying causes can help guide effective support.

How can therapy help with separation anxiety?

Therapy can help you explore the roots of separation anxiety, develop coping strategies for managing distress, and gradually build tolerance for separation. Therapists may work with attachment patterns, anxious thoughts, and practical strategies for navigating situations that trigger anxiety. The goal is to increase security and independence over time.

How do I find a therapist for separation anxiety?

On First Session, you can browse therapist profiles and look for those who work with anxiety, attachment, or relationship concerns. While our network of separation anxiety specialists is growing, many therapists can support anxiety-related challenges. Watch intro videos to find someone whose approach resonates with you.

Are there related areas of support I could explore?

Yes—if you're experiencing separation anxiety, you might explore therapists who work with anxiety, attachment, relationships, life transitions, or nervous system regulation. These areas often overlap and addressing them can support your healing.

How can First Session help me find support?

First Session connects you with licensed therapists across Canada. Browse profiles, watch intro videos, and filter by specialty or availability. All therapists have their credentials verified during onboarding, making it easier to find qualified support for your needs.

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